If you have spent any time at all here at Cheating Ways, you know we like to talk about all aspects of cheating – the pros and cons, the dos and don'ts, and everything in between.

That's because we know many of you come here when you are ready to have an affair – or, at least, thinking about it.

On the other hand, we also know that many men come here because they are worried that their wives or girlfriends may be cheating on them.

They want to know what the signs of a cheater are and what to do about it.

If you think your girl may be roaming you have to be very careful how you deal with her. After all, if you accuse her and you are wrong, you'll look like an idiot and she will probably never forgive you. But, living with your suspicions may drive you crazy. It’s not very likely that she's going to admit to an affair and risk your relationship so, what's a poor guy to do?

The bottom line is, you don't want to confront her unless your suspicions are grounded in reality. Many women are very good at getting away with cheating – mostly because guys don't know how to read the signs. We’ve covered the signs of a cheating wife pretty thoroughly in the past but, here are a few of the more common signs to watch for.

Now, just because your wife or girlfriend’s behavior matches a couple of the signs of a cheater, it doesn't mean that she is definately stepping out on you. But, if she displays several of the signs then it might be time to have a talk with her.

• She changes her birth control routine. If she's been on the pill for a long time but suddenly wants to go back to condoms, this is a red flag. It may mean that she is trying to cover her tracks by making it less likely she'll bring a STD home to you.
• You used to give her lots of oral sex, but now she doesn't want you to go down on her nearly as often. This means she's worried about you tasting latex or sperm.
• She is suddenly much more interested in having sex with you. This could mean that either she feels guilty, or else her new man has ramped up her libido.
• She is suddenly much less interested in having sex with you. As odd as it sounds, often women will try to be "faithful" to their lovers.
• Her friends are trashy. If her friends are constantly talking to her about their affairs and bragging about them, she may feel left out and want to create some stories of her own. Her friends may encourage her to bed others.
• She is going out "with the girls" more often than she used to. That could mean her friends are covering for her.
• You notice that she's getting more and more text messages than she used to. Her lover may be sending her steamy little messages.
• She takes phone calls in another room. This could mean that she doesn't want you to hear her talking to her lover.
• The sheets in your bed are changed more than once a week. Changing sheets isn't fun. If she is changing them that often, it's to hide the wet spots.
• When she comes in from a night out, she jumps in the shower before she gets into bed. She doesn't want you to smell him on her.
• You realize that she's often changing clothes in another room. This could mean that one of her lovers has left a "love bruise" on her and she's waiting for it to heal.
• She's talking on the phone with her friends much more than she used to. In this case, they may be trying to get the dirty details out of her.
• One or more of her friends starts flirting with you more. This "friend" may have had a long-standing crush on you and may now consider you fair game, since your partner is stepping out on you.
• She claims to have bought herself new jewelry – particularly if it's an anklet. Lots of men want the woman they are sleeping with to wear jewelry they've bought them. And, anklets are a symbol in the cuckolding and swinging community that a woman has cheated on her mate.
• Beware if an ex-boyfriend has moved back into town. Ex-boyfriends are almost impossible to resist!

If you seriously think your wife or girlfriend may be cheating on you, it may be time find out for certain. I recently had the opportunity to take at How to Catch a Cheating Spouse, by Sarah Paul. She is a dating and relatonships author, who has also turned her talents into helping people find proof of their partner cheating, an ever useful tool in modern relationships. Her How to Catch a Cheating Spouse course is an established and time-tested product that has been selling online successfully for a number of years. You may want to check it out.

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